CONTENTS

INTRODUCTION

PART I: PRINCIPLES


WHAT IS BEING CLOSE
VALUING CLOSENESS
THREAT OF CLOSENESS
COMMON PITFALLS
FALLING IN LOVE
SEPARATES TOGETHER
ROMANCE AND LOVE
BEING MYSELF
TWO TO TANGO
MARRIAGE INTIMACY
CHANCE ENCOUNTERS
POSSESSION
VIRTUE OF CLOSENESS
POWER AND INTIMACY
JUST PLATONIC
LOVE AND SEX
SPOUSES AND FRIENDS
A SOMETIMES THING

PART II: PRACTICE

                DOING CLOSENESS
CONVERSATION
MUTUAL PACING
KEEPING SECRETS
IN TOUCH BY TOUCHING
ETHICS OF INTIMACY
SEXUAL FIDELITY
AFFAIRS
ACCEPTING LIMITS
RULES OF THUMB

 

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